Do not ask whether they want it. Ask which evening.
People in the middle of something hard cannot make decisions, and 'can I bring anything' is another decision.
Send a message that says: I am dropping food on Tuesday, leaving it at the door, no need to reply.
Bring something that freezes, in a container you do not want back.
How to actually do it
- 01Name the day rather than asking if they want help.
- 02Cook or buy something that freezes.
- 03Use a container that does not need returning.
You already know if this is the one. Go put a date on it.
Date it in the app