Not networking, not a favour. Just an hour with a person you like.
Adult friendship stalls because every meeting needs a reason. Somewhere along the way we stopped being allowed to enjoy people without a purpose attached.
Send a specific day and a specific place. Vague invitations are a polite way of never meeting.
An hour is the right size. Long enough to get past the update, short enough that nobody has to rearrange their life.
How to actually do it
- 01Choose the person and two possible dates.
- 02Name the place in the same message.
- 03Say plainly there is no agenda.
You already know if this is the one. Go put a date on it.
Date it in the app